Many transmen do not experience discrimination or stigma, but if you do, you are protected by the law. Discrimination is when you are treated differently or unpleasantly because you are a trans person. For example if you apply for a job and you are turned down because you are a transman, this is discrimination and is illegal.
Some forms of stigma and discrimination are less easy to take action against. Sometimes trans people are laughed at in the street or called names. Things like this can be intimidating, upsetting and hurtful and it can be hard to know how to react.
Here are some tips that other trans people have found useful when dealing with this kind of situation:
- Challenging the person who is discriminating against you.
- Ignoring the comments and walking away – especially if you think retaliating could compromise your safety.
- Finding ways to cope with the way stigma makes you feel – this could be through writing a journal, learning yoga or meditation or finding a hobby you enjoy.
Transphobic crime
If you have been the victim of a transphobic crime, many police stations will have a lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) liaison officer who you may prefer to talk to about what has happened. Police forces take transphobic crime seriously – if you Google search for ‘LGBT police liaison officer + your local area’ you should find a list of your local contacts.
Here is a list of contacts for the LGBT Liaison officers in each London borough.
If you are in immediate danger call 999.
Other organisations
GALOP and Gendered Intelligence Youth Group have produced an interactive online zine addressing some of the issues around taking action against Transphobia.
Gires provide a service where you can report a transphobic crime which they will collate into a report with anonymous details.
Transphobia is illegal – it is hate crime, do try to get support and report it.